The Lonely Journey of the Sigma Male. Navigating a world of Alpha and Beta Males. 

At first, I thought the world was only about Alpha and Beta. Today, there are six male personality types: Alpha, Beta, Gamma, Omega, Delta, and Sigma.

We’ll go over all of them in a different article.

Today, let’s focus on the top of the food chain: Alpha and Sigma.

The “Sigma male” is a term that describes a type of man who is both independent and socially influential. Sigma males are often seen as enigmatic, brooding, and mysterious. They are not followers or conformists but instead strongly prefer to go their way. 

Sigma males often reject the traditional concepts of “Alpha” and “Beta” males and instead forge their unique path. First and foremost, I claim to be a Free Soul. Getting thrown into a bucket called Sigma Male doesn’t bother me, but I lived my life, until today, thinking I’m a unique human being – nothing more, nothing less.

The journey of the Sigma male is often a lonely one. They are seen as outsiders and tend to be misunderstood or ignored in most social circles. Due to their independent nature, they often find it challenging to form meaningful relationships with others and can become isolated and alone. This can lead to feelings of loneliness, depression, and even a sense of hopelessness. It is helpful to look at the concept of “Alpha” and “Beta” males to understand the journey of a Sigma male. 

Alpha males are typically seen as the “top dog” in any social circle. They are solid, confident, and often take the lead in any situation. 

Beta males, on the other hand, are more passive and submissive. They tend to follow the authority of the Alpha Male and can often be seen as the “sidekick Sigma males, in contrast to Alpha and Beta males, who are not interested in competing for status or power. They do not seek to dominate or control others but instead prefer to go their own way and live on their own terms.

Sigma males are often seen as mysterious, independent, attractive, and intimidating to others. Sigma males often feel a sense of alienation from the typical social structure. They can feel like they don’t fit in and are walking a different path than everyone else. 

I never felt rejected. It’s the other way around. People came to me, girls and guys. I had plenty of friends and girlfriends, but I was never in the same group. Even when I played rugby, on and off, for 20 years, I enjoyed being in a team. However, I played in many teams and never felt nostalgia when I was traded from one team to another.

From what I gather, Sigma Male is an introvert. I’m not about doing the Alpha thing, but I never experienced the trauma others drag from a difficult childhood. Having a better childhood than mine should be illegal.

It’s not my case, but being different can lead to loneliness, as Sigma males don’t feel like they have anyone to rely on or connect with. They can also be seen as aloof and unapproachable, further alienating them from potential relationships. 

My young self

 The journey of the Sigma male is often one of self-discovery and growth.

They must learn to embrace their independence and be comfortable in their skin. I was born in 1969. Today, I can look back in the rearview mirror.

Yes, I had to figure out life, like you. 

 I worked to overcome loneliness and learn to appreciate and accept myself for who I am. Everyone else wanted to be within a group of friends. I was welcomed by any group, anywhere, anytime. Being alone was not a problem. It’s the other way around. Even today, I escape from the group to enjoy being alone. For example, it could be at a party or when I do sports. At one point, I need to get the F out of there. When the feeling arises, I’m gone faster than you think. My family and friends became used to this weird behavior.

With time and effort, Sigma Males can learn to find their place in the world and find fulfillment and happiness on their own terms. To better understand the journey of the Sigma male, it is essential to look at the various challenges they face. 

One of the biggest challenges is finding a sense of belonging in a world that is often hostile to independence. Sigma males must learn to be comfortable with their own thoughts and feelings and to be okay with the fact that they may not fit into the traditional social structure. 

Another challenge is learning to develop meaningful relationships. Sigma males are often seen as aloof, so forming meaningful connections with others can be difficult. They must also learn to trust others, open up, and be vulnerable. This can be daunting for someone who is used to being independent and self-sufficient. Finally, Sigma Males must learn to value themselves and their journey. They must learn to accept themselves for who they are and to appreciate their unique perspective on the world. Sigma Males must also learn to take responsibility for their happiness and fulfillment and find their path in life.

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